Our Thinking.

Decision making, Life

When we ask for help

When we ask for help, we really don’t want the help, we want some relief. We don’t want a cure for our problems, we want…

Decision making, Life

The Mind and the Weather

The mind of a human being is like the weather. It’s ephemeral. One moment it makes him happy, another moment it makes him sad. It…

Decision making, Life

Reality

Human beings like to live under illusions But reality hits different. Once we come into contact with reality, our illusions are shattered. But as soon…

Decision making, Life

Human Problems

After feeding his stomach, covering his nakedness and having a roof over his head,A human being starts inventing problems for himself.He needs to find a…

Decision making, Life

The barman’s wisdom

Here are some rules of thumb for judging character that I learnt from Paul the barman. If he is dressed to the nines, nice suit,…

Decision making, Family, Life

Peers, not parents

Peers, not parents, determine what kind of an adult a child becomes. From childhood, human beings seek to emulate those of higher status in their…

Decision making, Life, Love

Love and Freedom

To be lovedTo be affirmedTo be validatedTo be respectedTo be importantTo be reassuredTo be esteemedThese are all illusions. Bottomless pits. Mirages.Cords that tether one to…

Decision making, Life

The stage

A human being is always on the stage performing. The day he realised that he was a human being, he put on his costume, got…

Decision making, Life

Man’s Best Friend

Man’s best friend is not a dog. He is a friend who is closer than a brother — always by his side. A loyal companion,…

Decision making, Life

The Universe

The universe is always ready to teach us a lesson. When we are proud, it force feeds us humble pie. When we are in love,…